2020 is here! A new year, a new decade

A new year, a new decade! What is this going to mean for you? Are you just going to carry on doing what you’ve been doing for the last 10 years or are you going to make a decision to grab this new decade with both hands and make your dreams come true? The decision […]


Years ago I learnt that having expectations of what people would do and how they would behave was bringing me a lot of hurt and disappointment. I use to write scenarios in my head of how something, an event or a day would go, what he would say, what she would say, what would happen […]

The most intense relationship you will ever have

Sunday, in Australia, is Mothers Day Last night at our Monthly Meditation we did my Cutting the Cords visualisation and we did it with our mothers. Regardless of the relationship you had with your mother she is the one who gave birth to you. If it wasn’t for her you would not be who you […]

I am not the same as you

One of many things I’ve learnt in my long life on this earth plane is that we are all different. We all see the world from our own world view. Through our own coloured glasses. I am not the same as you. ‘My way is the only way’ is the rule that I grew up with, […]

We women are truly awesome!

International Women’s Day is celebrated on 8th March each year. The theme for this year is ‘Make it Happen!’  Last Friday I went to an International Women’s Day event at The Pavilion, Kiama. The decision to go was made months ago because I know the three women who organized the event; two of them are […]

The benefit of goals versus resolutions

Well it has finally arrived ~ the last day of 2014! I was going to write this blog days ago but time has passed by so quickly I got a shock to realize that today was New Years Eve. My husband and I had the most wonderful Christmas in Melbourne surrounded by our children and […]

Does Christmas always disappoint you?

I was talking with a client recently and we were discussing Christmas. She was bemoaning the fact that Christmas in Australia just didn’t feel like Christmas – because Christmas is not meant to be hot. You guessed it, she comes from the northern hemisphere. My mother complained about Christmas not feeling like Christmas for the […]

The journey to find my authentic self

Authentic. I’ve been hearing and reading a lot about being authentic lately. In fact I have been bombarded by it. Authentic here, authentic there!! It’s the buzz word in business. (I wrote this some time ago and came across it spring cleaning my files) Because I was getting the message from so many different directions […]

Is our capacity to love finite?

On the 11th June, Archer Robert Kenny, our new grandson was born. Interesting energy that this young soul has taken on. Archer is my maiden name and Robert is the name of his maternal grandfather and his paternal uncle (my eldest son). It has taken me awhile to get used to seeing it written down. As […]

The month of love

February is touted now as the month of love. On Valentine’s Day we are surrounded by images, by words, by songs all telling us that our value, our worth, our very existence  is dependent on whether someone sends us flowers, or chocolate, or gifts, or beautiful posts on Facebook. We are being told continually that we need […]