I believed I was an empowered woman

I had worked through so much ‘stuff’I thought the fact I’ve had so many birthdays and have done so much work on myself, so many workshops, books, courses, that I had come to a place of empowerment able to stand in my own sovereignty.

For the past twenty years I have taught courses about it and helped clients take back and stand in their power.

But a little voice was whispering there was still something I needed to do.I’m okay where I am, I countered, I’ve done enough.

Oh, how the Universe loves a challenge!

So in order to prove there was still more I had to do the Universe brought me to my knees.

The one thing I was proudest of, my greatest achievement, was shattered and everything I thought I believed was in tatters.

After recovering from the shock I realised I can’t change other people, I can only change myself and what I do from here is up to meI have a choice, as always . . .and my choice is how I respond to the situation I find myself in.

Do I rise above it and look at the big picture from my spiritual self’s perspective?

Or do I stay in my small minded human self, feel sorry for myself and blame other people for the situation I find myself in?

So I allowed my human self to run the show for a few days

I wallowed in all those human emotions, knowing full well there was a time limit if I allowed them to flow through me

I knew that my spiritual self was stronger and that given time to process what had taken place I would be able to view the situation from a loving, forgiving space.

After a few days I have arrived at that space of being able to see the big picture and what I discovered was …

Finally, I had completely stepped into my power, my sovereignty,standing in my true authentic self.

Whatever the outcome turns out to be, I am at peace with it..

I have reached the space where I can proudly place my crown upon my head and step fully into my sovereignty 👑

Now standing in that blissful, centred place I am ready to lead my tribe from a place of empowered sovereignty

So that regardless of what it happening ‘out there’ they can stand in their sovereignty as well! 👑



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You could do anything and everything a man could do

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and because there is no time or space to focus on ourselves, plus we’ve been taught that to do so is wrong
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both in my generation and the generations to follow.

Each generation tries to rebalance the wrongs they felt the previous generation inflicted upon them

I see the same things manifesting in my clients,
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and most of them say they feel stuck.

At the crux of all of it is the need
to be seen and heard, to be validated and acknowledged

and how quick the turnaround and change begins when that happens!

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