How ThetaHealing set me free!

I knew ‘something’ wasn’t right. I knew there had to be more to life than this. I just wasn’t happy.

My life on the outside looked good. I was married with four beautiful children. I had a nice house in a nice area with good friends. I had food on the table. I wasn’t being abused. I had a job I enjoyed.

But. ‘Something’.  Just.  Wasn’t.  Right.

I knew that my childhood had impacted my life (I’m an only child with a narcissistic mother – which I only worked out a few years ago).

I knew that my schooling had had a negative impact on my life (boarding school at the age of seven, three months after we migrated from England).

I knew that the main thing affecting me was that my father was killed by a drunk driver when he and my mother went back to England for a holiday. He was in a coma for 10 days and died a month before my third child was born – I never got to say goodbye to him. Or rather he left me without saying goodbye to me which was how I always thought of it.

My maternal grandfather had returned to England ten years before and died without saying goodbye to me too. The two men, in fact the only two people, who loved me unconditionally had left me without saying goodbye. It didn’t matter how much my conscious adult mind tried to convince me otherwise, the emotional child within me had different ideas. She had a belief and nothing was going to change that.

Over the years I did heaps of courses and workshops and with each thing that I learnt I chipped away at the reason why life wasn’t as fantastic for me as it seemed to be for everyone else. I knew what the reasons were but nothing I learned showed me how I could overcome my past.

I knew the traumas that had occurred in my life. I knew what I was angry about. I knew what I was frustrated about. And I knew who I needed to forgive.


In all that studying, reading and discovery I learnt nothing new about my situation, nothing changed.

I just learned how to help other people. Something I had been doing my entire life.

Reiki helped. Bowen helped. Australian Bush Flowers helped. Meditation helped. A psychosomatic counselling course helped.
The Holistic counselling course helped ~ it certainly helped me understand the relationship I had with my mother.

Sitting in counselling sessions for a year helped but it kept me reliving my story with no way to change the emotions that came up EVERY SINGLE TIME I repeated it.

I didn’t know how, and no-one gave me any suggestions, to get over the emotions that overwhelmed me each time I told the story. I even had a couple of visits to a psychiatrist – and that didn’t help, at all!

The saying ‘build a bridge and get over it’ most definitely didn’t help.

Because I didn’t know how. 

These platitudes that trip off people’s tongues so easily are all well and good, and may possibly make them feel as if they are being supportive and helpful …. but they don’t tell you HOW.

How do you build a bridge and get over it. For most people I think that equates to ‘dig a hole and bury it’. Which is something that I did for many years until just like a volcano it came spewing up and out. Not helpful to me or the people around me.

After searching and studying for 20 years I finally stumbled across ThetaHealing®. Here was a three day course that taught me everything I had learned in the other things I had studied … AND .… it showed me how to ‘dig’ and get to the bottom belief, how to remove it so that everything that had been built up on top of that misguided hidden belief or programme would all came tumbling down. Just like a house of cards!

Suddenly I had tools to deal with my past. Each time an emotion came up I knew what to do. That emotion was telling me something and I needed to listen. Before I would have just blamed everyone else for the way I felt. Not wanting to feel it I would fling it about on everyone else.
Finally I began to take responsibility for my emotions, I did this because I had found a way to deal with them.

I knew the saying ‘nobody can make you feel anything without your consent’ but I didn’t know how to work with it. I didn’t know how to stop doing the same old thing and expecting a different outcome.


ThetaHealing taught me all that …. and so much more!

Suddenly I was empowered. Suddenly I had an entire tool bag of tricks. Suddenly I had a way to deal with, and get rid of, those self-limiting and dis-empowering beliefs that had been there since I was a very young child.


and what an amazing feeling that is!

When I first learnt ThetaHealing I was doing it for myself. then I wanted to use it with my clients. When I saw the amazing results they were getting I wanted to be able to give more people that opportunity. So when Vianna Stibel, the founder of ThetaHealing came to Australia I did the teacher training.

My passion in life now is to share this life-changing technique with as many people as I can so that they too can be free of the past. A past that has bound them, held them captive and sabotaged any chance they had of moving forward towards the freedom of a truly awesome life.


I am so excited that this Friday I have a Basic ThetaHealing course to teach and I can share this gift with more people.

If you would like to be one of those people please contact me because I would love to have you join us so that you too can have freedom.  So that you too can be free!


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